“I think I can’t. I think I can’t.” Odds are the Little Engine That Couldn’t would never have made it big on the children’s book scene. We loved rooting for the little guy and watching him succeed where others failed. And we loved his determination.
True … positive thinking is a powerful ally. But just thinking “I can” isn’t going to let me climb Mount Everest, for example. Even having sherpas carry me up there wouldn’t get me to the top safely without tons of training and preparation. Success takes so much more than mere thought.
But thinking you can’t and continuing to question yourself along the way rarely gets you to the finish line as a winner. And for many, rarely gets them to the finish line at all. And this is true in the workplace as much as anywhere else.
Enter determination
Determination goes beyond just believing in yourself. It’s almost like turning on a switch inside that says ignore inner voice that doubts. And, while not totally ignoring very real obstacles, set your mind to “how can I make it work” rather than “I can’t”.
The American Psychological Association defines determination as “a mental attitude characterized by a strong commitment to achieving a particular goal despite barriers and hardships.” That may sound fairly simple, but the obstacles that pop up — both real and rooted in your self-doubts — can be very persuasive.
Thinking you can is step one. Setting your mind toward not giving up no matter how long and how many obstacles is the power that transcends. It helps you counter self-defeating mind tricks that often stem from childhood “I can’ts” and more importantly “you can’ts”.
Does determination make everything work?
No. You need to be prepared to shift your plan at times. And find ways to side-step obstacles that are in your path. Perhaps you need more education. Or allies that support you and your goal.
Maybe you’ll even need to stop for a while and earn more money to help you with your next steps. Or you might realize that the goal itself has shifted as you learned more.
Determination is about not being too stubborn to change direction. Nor convincing yourself to take an easier path when things get tough rather than finding a way that can work.
It’s about truly recognizing what’s in your heart and following that path to the end. Regardless of obstacles or self-doubt. And regardless of new directions and needs you couldn’t have imagined until you found them.
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